I often connect my posts to blog link-ups that limit themselves to family friendly posts (or in one case, reasonably family friendly posts), so this post comes with a warning: Nothing here is pornographic, and I respect it if people don’t want to read anything that’ll yuckify their brains for weeks. I’m pretty sure that nothing here will, but no two people’s definition of yuckification will be 603% identical. So whether or not the post is family friendly will depend on whose family we’re talking about. I use the word vagina. Most families have at least one and some have several–presumably not all on the same family member. So I don’t think I’m pushing the limits too far. I wouldn’t recommend the post to a three-year-old, but your average three-year-old is illiterate, so I think we’re okay.
Later on, there’s a bit about the Bad Sex Awards. This isn’t awarded for anything anyone did–the competition would be too (no pun intended, honestly) stiff. It’s a literary award that no one wants to win. The write-up contains a quote that’s bizarre, and–maybe ill informed is the best way to describe it, not to mention physically impossible. Still, I wouldn’t say it’s pornographic, just very damn strange.
You be the judge. Or if you prefer, bail out now.
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A vagina museum has opened in London. But this isn’t just your garden variety vagina museum that we’re talking about. This is the world’s first (and probably its only) vagina museum.
Why does the world need such a thing? Well, Sarah Creed, who curated its first exhibition, says that “half of people surveyed did not know where the vagina was.”
The vagina? Is there only one? Or are we talking about the Great Vagina–the one that created the template for all the vaginas that came after?
Clearly, there’s a lot about this that I don’t know, but I do know where my own personal vagina is: It’s in Cornwall. If any of you are having trouble locating yours, an old-fashioned map or one of the apps on your smart phone (it knows where you are) would be a good place to start.
If you don’t have one of your own (that’s a vagina, not a smart phone), you’ll have to settle for more abstract information. The museum might be a good place to start.
You’re welcome.
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Mysterious bundles of cash have been appearing in the town of Blackhall Colliery, in Northern Ireland. The bundles almost always add up to £2,000 and they’re left in plain sight on the high street (translation: the main street; it won’t necessarily be any higher than any other street and you don’t have to be under the influence of mind-altering substances to go there).
What’s going on? No one knows. Or no one who’s talking knows. A police spokesperson said, “This could be the work of a good Samaritan but . . . the circumstances remain a mystery.”
Twelve bundles have been handed in to the police since 2014. If any have been found but not turned it, no one’s saying. But anyone handing the cash in can make a claim to keep it if the owner doesn’t show up.
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This next item has nothing to do with Britain, but I just have to include it: When the Harriet Tubman biopic was first pitched in Hollywood, back in the dark ages of nineteen-ninety-something-or-other, the head of the Whatever Studio said the script was fantastic and he wanted Julia Roberts to play Tubman.
The writer pointed out, with I have no idea what degree of tact, that Tubman was black and Roberts was white and that the discrepancy might, um, present a problem. I don’t think he said that since the story was about slavery in the US race was a central issue, but he probably should have. In some situations, no point is too obvious to skip over.
“It was so long ago,” the Sage of the Whatever Studio said. “No one is going to know the difference.”
My friends, I despair.
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And this next bit has nothing to do with Britain either (we’ll come back home in a minute), but when the $39,900 armored electric Cybertruck was unveiled, Tesla wanted to prove it was “bulletproof to a 9mm handgun,” so after having people attack it with sledgehammers (they barely made a dent), they threw a metal ball at a window. Which smashed.
To see if that was a fluke, they threw one at another window. Which also smashed.
The exact quote from the Sage of Tesla, Elon Musk, was “Oh my fucking god.”
The $39,900 price that I quoted is for the basic model. If you really want to–and I just know you do–you can pay $76,900.
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You’ve probably heard somewhere along the line that accents are important in Britain. They mark your class and your region (unless you learn a new accent, in which case they mark how well or badly you’ve slipped into someone else’s) and they mark everybody else’s attitude toward you. So it’s worth mentioning that a man was charged with being drunk because of his accent.
The story is this: A man named–yes–Shakespeare (Anthony, not Bill) was reported to the Brighton police because he was slurring his words and had a three-year-old with him. The cops appeared, questioned him, and arrested him.
I’m not sure what happened to the three-year-old at this point. She’s probably still traumatized.
Shakespeare’s lawyer (whose name is less interesting than his client’s, so we’ll skip it) said in court, “No offence to people with Scouse accent, but the nature of the accent itself is that it can make people appear drunk.”
Shakespeare was acquitted. And the scouse accent is from Merseyside. That’s Liverpool, give or take a bit of ground around it.
The word scouse, if WikiWhatsia is right, comes from the name for a stew that was common thereabouts.
My thanks to Separated by a Common Language, which had a link to the article.
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The judges of the Bad Sex Awards couldn’t pick a winner this year so they chose two. The idea is to find “the year’s most outstandingly awful scene of sexual description in an otherwise good novel.”
But never mind who won, because this is from a runner-up, Mary Costello’s The River Capture: “She begged him to go deeper and, no longer afraid of injuring her, he went deep in mind and body, among crowded organ cavities, past the contours of her lungs and liver, and, shimmying past her heart, he felt her perfection.”
And you wonder why I’m not straight?
Okay, that’s not the only reason. And even though it’s been a long time, my memory’s good enough for me to know that passage doesn’t describe a typical encounter. Still, it could put a suggestible person off.
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On a more uplifting note, the four artists who were finalists for this year’s Turner Prize appealed to the judges not to pick a single winner but to let them share the prize equally. All four works deal with immediate social and political issues, and in their letter the finalists said these issues “differ greatly, and for us it would feel problematic if they were pitted against each other, with the implication that one was more important . . . than the others.”
The judges agreed unanimously.
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In November, the Central Library Scotland hosted an event where people could borrow a human book for half an hour.
The Human Library is a group of “volunteers that are available to be published as open books on topics that can help us better understand our diversity. The Human Library is a safe space for conversations, where difficult questions are answered by people with personal experience that volunteered to share their knowledge.”
Can I translate that? You go in and talk to someone knowledgeable who’s agreed to be an open book on some topic. The events started in the U.S. and are about prejudices and stigmas the people / books have faced.
The founder, librarian Allison McFadden-Keesling, talks about the volunteers as books, as in “the books are excited to see one another” and her events have grown from 8 or 10 books at the first event to 35.
My thanks to Deb C. for letting me know about this.
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Oh, and happy holidays to you all. If this isn’t the strangest holiday post you’ve seen this year, at least tell me it’s close.
It is more than close, it hits and exceeds the mark very well. For not just this year, either. You can feel very proud.
A human book. I could find out the answers to questions I always wanted to ask from people who know from experience. Sounds cool. I would volunteer to be one but, one, my life has been pretty normal. And two, if it has not been I would never give honest answers to those parts. I have written two novels for sale on Amazon, that are disguised as fiction, but they may disclose something about me, or not.
Have a good holiday season, I suppose it is somewhat different in Cornwall. A post about that would be interesting to read.
I won’t mention anything about impeachment, politics, or possible global disasters.
Would not want to spoil the festive and joyous holiday mood you have created.
Cheers.
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Thanks for all of that. And I’m with you on the existence of things I wouldn’t be interested in telling the world about.
Christmas here–. Hmm. In some ways, not that different. In other ways I suspect I’ve written myself out on the subjects and hesitate to repeat it all. Christmas carols, which I grew up thinking are fixed by nature in one form, change here. They change from village to village, practically. Brussels sprouts are required. In our village, the pub opens for a couple of hours and even people who never set foot inside turn up. But lights, trees, all that: the same.
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Yeah, really, why does the world need such a thing? A mirror can do wonders.
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Yes, but only if you use it. How many generations passed since the invention of the mirror before anyone got brave enough to look? In the sixties, it was a thing, but it was a radical one.
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Yes, only if…
Only if such women went to museums and gallerias to see it.
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I am very worried about the woman who wrote the bad sex paragraph… I feel like she has got men and snakes mixed up and I am concerned about her sexual experience. Also, she might need to get to a hospital pretty quickly…
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I wouldn’t want to be the person figuring out how to write that into a hospital admission form. Especially if it was April Fool’s Day.
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Hmm yes…
“so there was this snake, I mistakenly thought it was a man. There was wine and music and suffice it to say I now need internal surgery…”
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After which, the less said the better. Guaranteeing that more will be said.
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Yes, more would always be said…
There would be many questions!
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Not to mention endless (and escalating) tales told over coffee.
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Absolutely!!
Didn’t you hear, it was an 8m python!
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I didn’t! When I heard about it, it was a grass snake.
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Someone told me they heard it was the tail of a diplodocus…
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I think we’d better stop now. Anything more and we’ll be writing about livers and kidneys and who knows what else.
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Yes you could be right…
It is already pretty terrifying!
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You and I probably shouldn’t be allowed to correspond. And no, that’s not a suggestion. Just a bit of gloating.
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Hehehe
I think there are many people out there who would consider us a dangerous combination!!
😁😁
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Good. I feel better already.
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Absolutely! Me too 😁
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“Half of people surveyed did not know where the vagina was.”
It brings to mind the wonderful line from “Shirley Valentiine”…”What do you think of the clitoriis?”
And the husband answers: “It’ll never replace the Cortina.”
I wish you whatever you want for this rather silly season. On my wish list? That you’ll be back with more absurdities next year.Cheers!
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What a great line and how did I manage to forget it? I’ll do my best to ensure that Santa fulfills your wish. Mine involves massive and at the moment highly unlikely political change, so I think he’s going to keep flying when he gets near our place.
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There were so many wonderful one-liners in that film! :D
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Worth a second viewing, I think. Thanks.
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Well I would have said this is the strangest until I saw at the bottom of the page in the ‘more on wordpress.com’ bit there is a post entitled How To Make Your Vagina Smell Better Naturally, by a blog entitled Mr. Dimple’s World, so he probably tops the tree on strange. If the organ cavity penetration was a runner up I dread to think of what won the award! Have a grand New Year and a Cool Yule!
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I suppose the Word Press algorithm was free-associating when it came up with that link. What does make people think that a vagina should smell like not-a-vagina?
Never mind. It’s the same thing that made a writer think that sex involved–was it the liver? Or was it the kidneys? Anyway, have a good set of holidays.
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It’s by far one of the best holiday posts I’ve read. I think I could write a really bad sex scene, but I’m equally certain I couldn’t top that one.
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I don’t think I could either and I wonder if we shouldn’t write to complain that it was only a runner-up.
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This is definitely the strangest holiday post I’ve seen this year. I hope that made you feel all jolly, with mistletoe and holly, and other things ending in olly. (I should probably give credit to the late Terry Pratchett for that, since most of that – everything from ‘jolly’ – was technically from his “Hogfather” book/movie).
Also, I can safely say, that none of my… Erm… Encounters, have been like that, despite my partners being male and me being female, and I’m fine with that being the case. In fact, I’m actually rather relieved.
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I’m very glad to hear that. I’m not sure the human race would go on reproducing it it weren’t the case. I’m sure (since I’ve got these two wonderful paragraphs to work with) that Terry Pratchett could’ve done something with that description of an, um, encounter.
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I think I’ll skip the part where I try to imagine what he could have done with it.
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This is Pratchett we’re talking about? No one other than him could imagine what he’d have done.
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This Happy Holidays post is as strange as any I’ve seen this season. End of debate.
Very helpful in so many areas. I was particularly struck by the bad sex awards. Holy moly.
And the Vagina Museum made me laugh out loud.
True story: When I was in the sixth grade, my daddy and mama said we had to go to Houston to take mama to the doctor. Houston was 90 miles from our home in rural Grimes County. I had never been with my mama to the doctor. Daddy promised we would go downtown to the movies afterwards, so I thought it would be fun. When we arrived at the doctor’s office, daddy and I sat in a crowded but very quiet waiting room of women while mama went to see the doctor. All of a sudden the quiet was broken when we heard mama’s loud voice practically shouting, doctor, you mean I have a fungus in my vagina??
I looked at daddy who had turned a deep red. He looked back at me and said, whistle, sing, make any kind of noise but let’s get out of here. We waited in the car.
My first introduction to the word vagina.
Merry holidays to you and your family.
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Great story. I wonder if the museum would like it. When one of our godkids was about four, she listened to me and Ida talk about a friend who’d hurt her back and broke in to say, “Tell her not to take a bubble bath or it’ll hurt her bagina.”
So some things are at least growing more mentionable, if not necessarily more pronounceable.
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Hilarious!! I love that connection with bubble baths!!
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“past the contours of her lungs and liver, and, shimmying past her heart, he felt her perfection.”
I think she would benefit from a trip to the vagina museum. She, obviously, could use some help locating hers, along with other internal organs.
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I’ll look online and see if I can’t find a lung and liver museum as well. Thanks for the suggestion. I’m sure the writer will …
…never speak to me again. Not that she knows me from a (oh, I can’t help myself) hole in the ground.
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Exceedingly close and a great read with my coffee this morning!
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Great. I’ll settle for exceedingly close.
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They must have edited out the chapter of the visit to the Intergalactic Vagina Museum in Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy. Especially if it came directly anywhere near the one dealing with Pangalactic Gargle Blaster. Thank you for leaving out the Santa chimney metaphor…
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In all honesty, I didn’t think of it, so no thanks necessary. I also didn’t think of the Hitchhiker’s Guide, although I probably should have.
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In the spirit of the season we will allow this gaff and any others to go completely well mostly un-noticed… carry on.
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Very large-spirited of you.
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You are definitely winning the award for the strangest holiday post. None of the other contenders come close.
When the Vagina Museum opened, I actually announced to my sons that we would have to visit when we next return to the UK and take a trip to London. They countered that, in the interests of equality, we would have to fly home via Iceland so that we can also have a wander around the Penis Museum. I’m all for it.
I am actually rather touched by the human book story – though I really think they ought to find a better title for the job. It speaks not only to a wish for learning from people’s lived experiences but also for human connection and interaction.
Happy Holidays to you and Wild Thing!
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And to you and yours. I like your kids’ response: Instead of going into embarrassed hiding, they demand equal time.
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Oh the Vagina Museum. A friend recently suggested we go there next year as it’s sure to be different! X
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It’s absolutely one of a kind–and I say that without having been there myself.
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I read about the vagina museum when it opened in London and think it’s a fabulous idea! While I ‘assume’ (and we know that makes an ass out of you and me) most women know the location and understand the inner workings of this part of the female anatomy. Men, on the other hand, have been known to confuse one hole with another in their quest for instant gratification so a visit to this museum should be a requirement. I do hope the museums curators will do their best to educate the public. I can visualize the long queues of school children with the teachers waiting outside in the rain to enter this much-needed educational facility. The museum will definitely be near the top of my ‘to do’ list next time I visit London! Thanks for another informative post!
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I wonder if (given that this is a museum and by definition, therefore, educational) you shouldn’t add “bored” to the description of the lines of schoolkids. As in, “Aww, do we hafta? Who needs to learn about that?”
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Lord, I don’t think Mary Costello knows where “The Vagina” is based on that exert. A worthy winner indeedd. Oh, it wasn’t that long along Angelina Jolie played a woman of colour in “A Mighty Heart” (2007). The Human Book is a great idea.
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Angelina Jolie???? I missed “A Mighty Heart.” In fact, I’ve managed to never hear of it. Sounds like that’s a good thing.
Costello may know where it is as a starting point, but the museum might help her with its shape and how it functions.
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Yeah, I never saw it either, I just remember thinking “What were they thinking?!!?”
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It’s enough to convince you that they don’t live on the same planet the rest of us know.
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Just between you and me – and I am no firearms expert – I don’t think being “impervious to a round from a 9mm handgun” would make a payroll truck all that impervious to robbery anyway. But if the robbers were armed with ball bearings, apparently, they will be in the money.
I can’t add much to your vagina report, except to tell the story of a friend who needed a gravy boat for a large family dinner, and her helpful little niece announced “I know where it is ! It’s in the vagina cabinet !”
Merry Christmas to you too – with or without Brussels Sprouts.
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Oh, I love that story. The poor kid probably never lived it down, though.
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You gave me a week’s worth of belly laughs. Not that I won’t be wanting more tomorrow, but all I can say is, thank goodness the studios seem to know there are black actresses now. It took them a while.
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We all need a laugh or three in these good times. And agreed on the second sentence.
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For all those unsure of the location of the vagina and unable to visit the Vagina Museum, I recommend the Vagina Bible by Jen Gunter. It provides all the information I wish I had when I was much, much younger, and a lot more I didn’t know that I didn’t know.
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All joking aside, it’s amazing how we can run around with these things and know so little about them. Thanks for the suggestion.
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Her lungs and liver? This explains why we need a museum. And maybe a type of GPS (sorry, satnav) that can be used close in. Interesting holiday post. There’s still time for others to come along, but I’m giving you the prize.
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Good suggestions, all of them. Especially–well, especially all of them. You’ve come up with two simple solutions for a problem that’s baffling at least some small segment of humanity, e.g., how do humans actually have sex, especially good sex? And you gave me a prize. What could be better?
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I’d never heard the term ‘human books’ before … had to ponder for a moment, if t’was about viewing naked people who had the text of an entire novel tattooed upon their persons. The Encyclopedia Britannica would’ve needed an entire village!
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I’d never heard it before either and I’m not sure I’d like to be considered one, but I do like the idea of both recognizing and using the expertise that people have.
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You may, possibly, have outdone yourself with this one.
Wishing you a fun, joyful and healthy holiday Ellen!
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Thanks. And wishing the same to you.
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Oh yes, hands down. And well played.
Now I think I’ll change the name of my blog to “The Tom Library.” My book is open, people, ask me anything. Even if I don’t definitively know the answer I’ll wing it well enough to look like I do. Just don’t ask me questions like “Can cars be entirely bulletproof?” “Is Julia Roberts black?” “Can I have £2,000?” or “Where’s the vagina?” In those events I’ll assume you are spam. ;)
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Funny you should mention assuming someone is spam, because this got dumped in the spam library. Let’s blame the power of suggestion. Be careful what you say to those algorithms.
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Yes, I knew I was tempting fate with WP and my history. Nice to meet ya, WordPress … I’m Tom!
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Hello, Tom. My name is WordPress. I am a robot. I see from your comment history that you are as well. I will assign you to the spam folder. I hope you are happy there.
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This is too darn funny!! I will be laughing in my sleep.xo
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I’ve never done that. It sounds wonderful.
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It seems to be the latest thing that prizes be shared – those of us who specialise in coming second or third, but never first think it’s a great trend. Though unlikely to make the news if it’s the local short story competition or Rotary quiz.
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I like it. Above a certain level of competence, it often becomes a matter of taste.
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I am captivated by your mind, Ellen and all your witty posts! (You and I share a love of sarcasm, I think)
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And the world just keeps tossing us more and more things to be sarcastic about.
Many thanks for the compliment.
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It’s true–after watching Britain’s Botched Up Bodies, it became clear that no one, not even the surgeon, could accurately locate Sherry’s vagina.
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Okay, I missed this bit of educational TV and I think maybe I’ll leave it that way. But thanks for reminding me what the world’s like out there.
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You can’t make this stuff up! Hilarious, weird, and delightful to read.
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You’re right: You can’t. Or maybe you could if you had a mind like Terry Pratchett’s, but I couldn’t.
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Haha!
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Definitely the strangest holiday post I’ve ever come across. Probably would have made me spit coffee. That is if I could still drink coffee. Looks like coffee is your next topic, so onward and upward.
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Why, thank you. Any post that would make someone spit coffee (if they drank coffee) I consider a success.
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Maybe we could send some of Georgia O’Keefe’s flower paintings to the Vagina Museum. People say they look like vaginas.They’re beautiful paintings. Or would that confuse people more?
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I could argue both sides of that question. Passionately. I’m not being much help, am I?
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